I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. The trick is to trigger certain powerful emotions within him. It shows his deep love . We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. Sometimes you arent pushing people away because of some internal defect of your own, but the simple fact that you arent listening to your feelings. You feel dissatisfied with your life as it is. Founded in 2010, Thought Catalog is owned and operated by The Thought & Expression Company, Inc. For over a decade, we've been at the bleeding edge of media, pioneering an infrastructure for creatives to flourish both artistically and financially. He lives a couple hours away from me and we talk enough but there are days when he doesn't. He sometimes came by my Place to Visit before he went to his Gigs. Should I carry on asking him to talk to me or move on . Do you think he's just insecure about me leaving him first? He does understand that it's not fare for him to expect me to read his mind and he is trying to work on it but he does slip back into that a lot. Scorpios may seem angry, but chances are, their minds are chewing on some larger-than-life idea or trying to solve a puzzle that has nothing to do with the room they are in or the people they are with. This is so true! But it was important for me to tell him that I regret what I said. If you push the issue at this time, then you can expect that she will be rude or cruel. Nonetheless, a Scorpio has a very unique personality they appear cold and reserved while at the same time eman. I can't say anything to him. Your partner may ask you to do something you did not expect.A slight delay at work is expected and . It's rather interesting to see that one of the most polarising zodiac signs has a flower that signifies happiness. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. They often understand what each other wants or needs based on the way they look at one another. Luv this hub. So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. 11 They're Aggressively Dominant. But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. If you are in love with someone with their Sun, Moon or even some the major planets in Scorpio, this is an intense person roiling under a seemin. I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? All is forgiven; the dog can tell the difference between a purposefully placed foot and an accidental injury. Pretending everything is fine will only make him feel worse. Libras are constantly at odds between what they want and what they thinkotherpeople want. Is this the end? He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. Then he explained everything and I was fine. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. When they are focused, it is with a single-minded obsession. Together the two should help each other stay positive and in the light of love. Once they have made a decision, they would go all guns blazing to accomplish what they want. I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. I fee like when we fight pieces of me die so when i feel to much its like i push a Button inside me that protects me from further hurt and i become cold and distant. We do everything together, but I am just a "friend" no PDA etc.. which is 110% fine with me. I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! Yes, they do play games , but its just to feel you out and see your loyalty. Scorpios are go-getters, and they rarely give up on anything they want to achieve. Sometimes i fought with him , coz i thought he does not love me !!!!! Have some self respect and dump these crazy scorpio loser dudes who have self centered ness as their #1 ! We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. Libras often totally remove themselves from social groups when they know that they need to change, this is easier than disappointing some people, or incurring the disapproval of friends who want them to stay the same. I cant figure out whats going on. Why do Scorpios push you away? He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. Love yourself, have your own projects and passions in life and trust in God. We stayed in Contact for the next 3 Years. He needs his Space, alone Time ,escape into his Music after having Stress Times. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. Empathy is a strength. Trust issue or what i dont know. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . Said we must become friends b4 lovers. He will test your sexual compatibility. He basically begged for a second chance. I would wait forever if he asked. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. I seem to be making all the efforts in the relationship . I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. Hi all, i m Scorpio woman n my partner is Scorpio too. Am addicted to their passion every time. In astrology, there are several complex methods of determining compatibility beyond sun signs. They are wonderful though, no doubt about it. I called, text, even went over. . I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. Its not that youd ever go totally out of your way to maliciously hurt another person, just that Virgos have a tendency to be super honest and up front and sometimes really blunt they care about people so deeply, and yet fear that their sometimes (unintentionally) insensitive ways could wreak havoc in the life of someone they love. You have to be very careful when lying to a Scorpio man because he is excellent at reading people and will probably know intuitively when you are lying to him. Not responding to my texts . it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. Whether that's losing weight, getting the job of your dreams . A Scorpio man might be concerned that his facial expressions would reveal him. Have I lost him for good? I have never cared or missed or loved anyone the way I do him. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? To be honest, I struggle with my inner feelings and thoughts regularly and, struggle to come to terms with them let alone trying to explain them. You have some work that you need to do on yourself. But now you're older and so confident in his loyalty that you constantly yank on his tail to show your friends how much he loves you. When you can determine no good reason to dislike someone, you will be stymied by the fact that you just dontclickwith the people that you so desperately want to. I really having trouble while dealing with him emotionally. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. A Scorpio does want to be with you, however when something lays heavily on their minds, or they are feeling emotionally overwhelmed, they need space. i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. Have a life. He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. Taurus in love with scorp on December 05, 2018: He is giving me silent treatment for over than one year. He would say things like " you know i can't make you happy. Scorpios are so hated due to their oppressive side. It comes in several parts and . That was only a month of knowing him. Be there for him when he needs you. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . All the time I have given them a real long rope and they have sadly tied it around their neck of their own accord. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. I have been dating a Scorpio man for 2 years and a half. Stay calm. Certainly, you should be remorseful for intentionally hurting someone you love. When a Scorpio man is not interested anymore he doesn't want to know anything about you. Getting comfortable with giving their partners room to make their own choices is a must. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. This page really helped, Kris. There are so many deep things at play from the moment you meet a Scorpio that will remain hidden and unexpressed. he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? Awesome! We met at a party, hooked up and then hung out like twice. Though they can happily keep to themselves and are very protective, once provoked, they do not hesitate to strike. Scorpio sun signs are born from October 23November 21, right between Libra and Sagittarius. If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. He is pure magnificence. I'm pretty sure something i said or the fact that he has to repeat himself various times and doesn't understand why I laugh at everything without explanation finally reached a ticking point. Again, anyone going through all of this nonsense, move on. As a fixed water sign, Scorpios are known for their loyalty and devotion and also their passion. Scorpio men need a lot of space for themselves. He a 7 year old Me a 2 year old. Ive been crazy about a Scorpio since the day we first met. He has no time to see me so I can't get answers. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? But here's the thing Scorpio is either ice or fire. We had a great connection, long amazing talks, which he would usually initiate, so we both agreed to take things slowly. Why do you push soooo hard to put sexually explicit content in front of little children. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. Virgos are often extremely cautious in love and will consider all odds before letting feelings arise towards someone. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. It may have to do with work or his family; you won't know until you ask him! When I was about to dump him he playa mind games - twist the whole thing, I mean I want to dump you and you acting stupid. 2. Number 1 tip. What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. Below are some of the reasons he may have gone quiet, has given you the silent treatment, or has just gotten less enthusiastic in his actions: 1. January Nelson is a writer, editor, and dreamer. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. Scorpios are actually very committed and upfront people: when they love you, they will love you completely and forever. I am not giving up on Him, not giving up on us. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. Please help me and tell me he will come back to me. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? We're spiteful. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. They don't just pay back once, but they pay back one million times over. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 30, 2012: amymarie 5 - Thanks! Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. These in-between times usually happen when he is trying to make an effort because he knows you probably don't understand his intensity or because he's genuinely curious about something you mentioned. Their rage is intense and packs a punch. Scorpio men employ various tests to assess a woman's self-image and confidence levels. Ha,nice Guy. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. To consider that a Leo, the sign known most for their unwavering self-confidence, could fear relationships because they actually question their own self-worth almost makes too much sense. A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. He might assume you have low self-esteem if you get upset or clingy. The following are key pillars of any strong relationship, but these may need some extra attention when dating a Scorpio. needless to say it is a long distance relationship on top of that we don't see each other as much as we would like to. Then I said I understand , you already made up your mind. Like I said its better to move on now because he has. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. I forgot to mention that he's really not good at communicating anything. Boyfriend lives in Arizona so communication is a big problem but we do get together on occasion and it is spectacular. I just dont have the heart for scorpios mind games and Im tired of my emotions being played with. how is the best way to respond to text or call after they have been distancing themselves and a little cold. There are plenty of respectful, loyal, and honest folks born in Scorpio season, just as with any other sign. This is so helpful! He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. 2. Oct. 20, 2022, 7:24 AM PDT. Learn why the Scorpio in your life is withdrawn and seems distant. He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. For a few reasons, he may avoid staring you in the eye when he is guilty about something. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. Everysince i felt hurt and texted him about how i felt and its been 4 days now he has not replied. Or a few months. It's important that you're truly remorseful when you apologize to them. They are ignoring you. Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. Im 17 and the scorpio ive been talking to is 17 also. I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. So, he didn't respond for a while but when he responded he said that I guess i am right that we are not for each other and he tried his best, that he is sad and disappointed, and that he wanted to be the person that I give my love to but he wishes me to find someone who will. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. In other words, he is creating space in preparation to leave. 13. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. Very true. Work life will be fine. Then we didn't talk much about what happened except I had asked him if he's testing me subconsciously and he said that maybe but he's not sure. Scorpions will call you at 3 o'clock in the morning to ask for a ride home from the club. male scorps). If you do that, your scorp will notice with his freakish Empathic ways and it WILL make him want you way more! because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. I know the Bug had a Gig near my Place so i went to Hogans to surprise him. Signs that a Scorpio man is cheating on you. Most of time i have to think before making a friend with any other boy. I felt like it was out of nowhere. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. If anyone is going through this; stop, drop and roll. You push people away, because your own sense of emotional comfort or inertia is easier than going deeper in the relationship. Then he asked me to meet up with him at his friends house, who he knew I used to have a relationship with years ago. I honestly thought he was ghosting me. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. 1. I'm going through the same crap. My brother is a scorp, a close friend is, I have it as my rising sign, so I catch ,myself holding many of these qualities as well. Why do Scorpio woman push you away? I think Scorpios are very complex people. So, I got pissed and send him many messages that were saying how much he hurt me by doing that but I was definitely a bit hysterical lol because on top of being a Cancer, I was starting to pms. But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out.
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